tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2316765421340036602.post7694687058979977901..comments2024-01-10T11:38:15.547-08:00Comments on Random Observations: Why are relations between the sexes so complicated?Ben Tillyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04335648152419715383noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2316765421340036602.post-88429888941144207992015-05-12T19:44:49.785-07:002015-05-12T19:44:49.785-07:00An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought...An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my wife back to me..<br />My name is Destiny Mark, i live in CANADA, and I'm happily married to a<br />lovely and caring wife, with two kids. A very big problem occurred in my<br />family five months ago, between me and my wife. so terrible that she<br />took the case to court for a divorce.she said that she never wanted to<br />stay with me again, and that she didn't love me anymore. So she packed<br />out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe<br />pain's. I tried all my possible means to get her back, after much<br />begging, but all to no in Vail. and she confirmed it that she has made<br />her decision, and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,<br />as i was coming back from work, i met an old friend of mine who asked of<br />my wife. So i explained every thing to her, so she told me that the<br />only way i can get my wife back, is to visit a spell caster called<br />dr,uguel because it has really worked for her too. So i never believed<br />in love spell, but i had no other choice, than to follow her advice.<br />Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster dr,uguel whom she<br />visited. DRUGUELSPELLHOME1@GMAIL.COM}. So the next morning, i sent a<br />mail to the address she gave to me, and the spell caster assured me that<br />i will get my wife back the next day. What an amazing statement!! I<br />never believed, so he spoke with me, and told me everything that i need<br />to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who didn't call<br />me for the past seven {5}months, gave me a call to inform me that she<br />will be coming back home. So Amazing!! So that was how she came back<br />that same day, with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her<br />mistake, and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that<br />day, our relationship was now stronger than how it were before, by the<br />help of a spell caster dr,uguel. So, i will advice you out there to<br />kindly visit the same website {DRUGUELSPELLHOME1@GMAIL.COM},if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to "bringing<br />your ex back. So thanks to the DR, UGUEL for bringing back my<br />wife,and brought great joy to my family once again.<br />{DRUGUELSPELLHOME1@GMAIL.COM}<br />Thanks... destiny mark.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15166813006709570956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2316765421340036602.post-22840692518433775662010-03-02T20:28:53.774-08:002010-03-02T20:28:53.774-08:00Interesting article.
You seem very evolutionary-mi...Interesting article.<br />You seem very evolutionary-minded.<br />I'm with you on that one.<br />How else can we analyze these sort of things?<br />I must say, while I agree with most of it, I do believe one must allow for inflation...<br />Just kidding.<br />Seriously now, things are certainly not so clear-cut.<br />Conclutions and arguments should be simply stated, as you have (I think Gauss was the one who really hit the nail on the head regarding this).<br />However, interpretation should be in the realm of generality, tendencies, etc., and allow for cultural differences and exceptions.<br />This is to say, we might call something a "female trait" but musn't consider it to be exclusive of a given gender.<br />Anyway, that's the least I could say after reading all that!<br />Regards!Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17218024660788255487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2316765421340036602.post-58200775242872894732010-02-03T09:29:53.647-08:002010-02-03T09:29:53.647-08:00@Azundris: As with many blog entries I'm stati...@Azundris: As with many blog entries I'm stating and organizing my understanding of things I've read in various pieces elsewhere. Hopefully what results will be true and interesting. However it is often not original.<br /><br />About your feminist angle, I'm pretty sure it doesn't work like that. Evolution is a slow process, and we don't immediately change our built-in reflexes because circumstances changed in the last generation or so. I know plenty of women who are well off who still want a guy who will commit.Ben Tillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04335648152419715383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2316765421340036602.post-70341666974045922822010-02-03T08:58:33.387-08:002010-02-03T08:58:33.387-08:00Sorry, but this seems the exact same thing we'...Sorry, but this seems the exact same thing we've read over and over and over?<br /><br />Independent from whether or not I buy into it though, I can, perhaps ironically, see a strong feminist message in that, because the upshot pretty much seems to be, "Make sure women make decent money, so we can get rid of the whole caregiver angle, so no-one who'd rather be single, or with someone hot, or a lesbian has to be in a relationship that's a lie." :)Azundrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17727092657508103785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2316765421340036602.post-2794714337852495132010-01-18T08:15:08.711-08:002010-01-18T08:15:08.711-08:00My understanding is that switched at birth issues ...My understanding is that switched at birth issues were never exactly common, but used to happen somewhat regularly. (When you have a hundred babies a day, a 1/10,000 event will happen several times per year.)<br /><br />Ditto baby abductions.<br /><br />These days, at least in the USA, there are rather strict security measures. Also science has demonstrated that early mommy-baby contact helps bonding and helps establish breast feeding, which in turn has other benefits. (Including improved IQ for many babies.) So hospitals have moved away from routinely keeping babies under observation in incubators.Ben Tillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04335648152419715383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2316765421340036602.post-67142241969006698032010-01-18T07:43:44.081-08:002010-01-18T07:43:44.081-08:00Adoption is one thing - what I read about is that ...Adoption is one thing - what I read about is that it used to be significantly common that children were swapped in the hospital and it created a lot of problems when were trials about fatherhood. Now childred after birth are nearly all the time with mother - but it used to be that they were separated and only joined for feeding.<br /><br />Yes - that was that article - and I was talking about this link from it: http://www.jimcollins.com/lib/articles/01_01_a.html (which is about management).zbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04636763782334128869noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2316765421340036602.post-27033778753757080372010-01-17T16:48:46.008-08:002010-01-17T16:48:46.008-08:00As for what you've read, that is true. One is...As for what you've read, that is true. One issue raised with the high school biology genetics experiments is that a certain number of adopted children who were never told discover that they were adopted. This raises legal questions. However the issue of children discovering that dad is not dad is a real issue.<br /><br />Thanks for pointing out Clay Shirky's post. I've <a href="http://www.shirky.com/weblog/2010/01/a-rant-about-women/comment-page-3/#comment-2333" rel="nofollow">responded</a> to his post. The article that I suspect you were thinking about is <a href="http://www.perlmonks.org/?node_id=270083" rel="nofollow">What you refuse to see, is your worst trap</a>. However that applied to everything, not just management.<br /><br />On whether being non-assertive is a female trait, well from what I've said above it would be. Remember that successful and confident are positive characteristics for attracting women. Therefore men have an incentive to assert those characteristics, even at some personal risk. By contrast men aren't strongly attracted to women who assert those characteristics, so women don't have that incentive. But that keeps them from being as forcefully assertive as men, which leads to what Clay Shirky complained about.Ben Tillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04335648152419715383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2316765421340036602.post-26336326167702178312010-01-17T15:18:17.737-08:002010-01-17T15:18:17.737-08:00I've read somewhere that another reason not to...I've read somewhere that another reason not to genetically check children is that often it comes out that they don't have the genes not only from the purported father but also from the mother, but maybe it has changed now.<br /><br />Another by the way - I remember that in one of your essays in the other site you quoted some research showing that the most effective managers are those that don't blindly believe in their abilities. Now - I know this is just another essay by another internet celebrity - but it appears that this is a 'female' treat: http://www.shirky.com/weblog/2010/01/a-rant-about-women/zbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04636763782334128869noreply@blogger.com